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I had a go in a flight simulator the other day which was brilliant! It was at iPilot at Westfield shopping centre, but they have a few other venues too.
It really helped me realise that Captain Keith is right when he said it is actually quite easy to fly a plane!
There is obviously a lot to learn about all the instruments, dials and procedures, but the general taking off and landing were fairly straightforward, just like driving a car...sort of!
I did a couple of take-offs and landings. Took off from Heathrow, landed in Malta, took off again and landed in Gatwick! My hour went by really quickly and I can see myself wanting to go back again for another go!
Try it! It may help you too!!
Here is the website http://i-pilot.info/index.html