You can do it with some help from this forum. I did it after 15 years, which is not as long as you, but still a long time none the less. Planes will have changed a lot since you last flew (they had since I did it) and its all for the better. Use the videos on this site to help familiarize yourself with how they look inside, and the take off videos are great. If you can, go on one of keiths courses, it really helped me so much to be able meet a real life pilot and feel I could ask him anything I wanted.
All the best
My flight date is fast approaching. My doctor gave me valium,but I wonder if ther is some natural remedy for extreme anxiety. I am dreading getting on the plane and the shutting ofo the door. it is constantly the what ifs.